Biz qoghamdy demokratizasiyalandyramyz, sóz bostandyghyn engizemiz, pikir pluralizmyn janghyrtamyz dep aitamyz. Dúrys-aq, kerek qúbylystar. Sonymen qatar, men qazaqtyng (basqa últtyng emes) ysyrapshyldyghyna bir kónil bóler edim.

QAZAQTYNG TOYY tym ysyrapshyl әri maqtanqúmarlyqqa toly. Jigit jaghy da, qyz jaghy da, songhysyn berip shashylugha beyim, kóptegen toylar nesiyege jasalyp jatqany da qúpiya emes. Daraqylyq, bir-birimen jarysu, "el ne deydi?" degen sasyq keude, qúr maqtan. Toy bitkennen keyin qinalatyn jastar, nesie tóleytin de jastar, joqshylyqqa shydamay ajyrasatyn da sol jastar. Elimizdegi ajyrasu payyzy joghary bolyp otyrghanynyng bir sebebi de, sol toydaghy bosqa mal shashpaq siyaqty.

Toydaghy tәrtip bólek әngime. Áleumettik jelide toyda ish kiyimmen biylep, bir-birimen sýikelip shar jaryp, eki bútyna banan qystyryp ony әieline jegizip degen siyaqty anayy oiyndardy kózimiz shalyp qalady. Toy mәdeniyeti joq. Búrynghy qazaqtyng toyy - mәseleni talqylap, arazdasqan jaqtardy tatulastyru, ortagha oy tastau edi. Býgingi toy qiqu men shiqu, anayylyq pen daraqylyq ordasyna ainaldy.

Elimizde problema kóp. Bilemin. Dese de, osy toy mәselesin bir jónge salatyn kez kelgen siyaqty. Sayasat/ekonomika da manyzdy shyghar, biraq qarapayym qazaqtyng kóptep zardap shegetin jeri osy toydyng jónge kelmeui, toydyng ortaq tәrtibining bolmauy. Toydy ysyrapshyldyqtan qútqarsaq, qarapayym qazaqtyng qaltasyn da saqtap qalamyz.

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