Dýisenbi, 19 Sәuir 2021
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«Ne molchiy.kz» qazaqstandyq otbasylardy qalay búzady?

Batys elderi granttyq qarjylandyru jýiesining kómegimen Qazaqstanda ózderine adal ýkimettik emes úiymdar qúratyny barlyghyna belgili.

Osylaysha, ózderine adal úiymdardyng kómegimen, qoghamdyq talqygha «batys» iydeologiyasyn engizedi, ol:

gomoseksualdar – búl qalypty jaghday; balalardy jazalaugha bolmaydy; ata-analar – balalaryn týsinbeydi; jenil esirtki qoldanugha bolady; jynys auystyrugha bolady. Bolashaqta olar bir jynysty neke men transgenderlik neke ýshin lobby jasap, әreket etui әbden yqtimal.

Osy úiymdardyng biri - «NeMolchiy.kz» qozghalysy. Ol Batys elderi iydeologiyasynyng Qazaqstandaghy jarshysy retinde tanymal.

Osylaysha, otbasylyq-túrmystyq zorlyq-zombylyqtyng aldyn-alu turaly jana zang jobasynda «NeMolchiy.kz» mynalardy úsynady:

- kishigirim túrmystyq zorlyq-zombylyqty qylmystyq jauapkershilikke tartu;

- balalardy otbasydan tartyp alu;

- әieli polisiyagha hattama toltyryp, kýieuin ýiden quyp jibere alady;

- kýieui әielimen úrysyp qalghan jaghdayda, kýieui psihiatriyalyq emdeluge mәjbýr bolady;

- balalar ata-analaryna qarsy ótinish jaza alady.

Áriyne, búl zang jobasyna kópshilik narazy boldy.

Ásirese – kópbalaly analar. Bir ýide 7-8 balany búiryq pen aiqaysyz ósiru mýmkin emes ekenin olardan artyq eshkim bilmeydi. Sәikesinshe, jana zang jobasynyng arqasynda, tәrbiyelik júmys jýrgizgen anasy «psihologiyalyq zorlyq-zombylyq» jasaghany ýshin balalarynan aiyryluy mýmkin.

Sonday-aq, kóptegen jaghdayda kópbalaly otbasylar tar pәterlerde túratyny qúpiya emes. Jana zang jobasyna sәikes, ýidegi әr balagha arnalghan sharshy metr sany jetkiliksiz bolsa, әleumettik qyzmetter búl otbasyny baqylaugha alady.

Biraq Dina Tansary kópbalaly ana emes, ol kópbalaly otbasyn tәrbiyeleuding barlyq qiyndyqtaryn qaydan bilsin?! Sondyqtan ol Batys zandaryn ainytpay kóshirip, otbasydan bastalatyn qazaq qoghamynyng bolashaghyna balta shappaqshy.

Sonymen, jana zang jobasy óte oghash әri qisynsyz qújat bolyp shyqty. Zang jobasy ata-analar men qogham mýshelerining qatysuynsyz jazylghany anyq. Múnday zang jobasyn qabyldau – últtyq qauipsizdigimizge qauip tóndiredi, qazaqstandyq otbasylarymyzdy búzyp, demografiyalyq regresske alyp keledi.

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